Us and Them...The Legend Continues
Welcome back boys and girls. Yes, this is a second blog in one day. I've got more on my mind this time. This is kind of a continuation of what I've been talking about. What kind of girl does a virtuous guy want? How does he meet her? Here's part of the virtuous man's playbook.
Everyone's at camp. You're a cute girl and a Mr. Virtuous has never met you before. He might say hi to you, or join a group that you're in and meet you that way. Maybe his friends will introduce you to each other. Most likely, the guy will try to meet you without the help of others. You're cute, why wouldn't he want to say hi?
He'll get to know what kind of person you are. He'll pay attention to the people you hang out with, the reputation you have, the clothes you wear (certain types of girls usually wear certain types of clothes). He'll pay attention to the things you say and what you talk about. There are other things he'll pay attention to, these are just some of them. He wants to know that you are a good girl. What do virtuous guys like? Innocence. Innocence is really attractive. A sweet, cute, innocent girl is a slice of heaven. A guy can generally determine your innocence based on the things I listed in this paragraph, and other things of course. What sort of clothes do innocent girls wear? What sort of things do they talk about? What sort of people do they hang out with?
On April 9, 2006, Josh Kerr wrote an excellent blog about women. He talked about how the way you look can be more attractive than a beautiful woman walking down the street. She's temporary, fake, untrue, and not innocent. You however, should be true and innocent. It is that truth and innocence that gets us. Those are the sort of things that wow us over. We might not always remember to list it as a quality we like in a woman, but it's powerful and beautiful.
Being cute might get things started, but being a good innocent girl can really get things rolling. The innocent girl will beat an attractive every time. If you're cute and I get to know you, and find out that you really aren't that innocent, that you aren't pure, that you aren't a good person, then you are just a waste of good looks to us. It won't matter how attractive you are. Good looks are an incentive for us to meet you sometimes, but they will not buy you friendship with us.
You may have noticed that I keep using the word "cute". What about the really beautiful girls, or the normal looking ones? We still talk to the normal looking girls, sometimes we see the way they act at camp, or see the kind of things they talked about on the youth forum. We want to meet you. Sometimes we think you're more attractive than everyone else does, but like I previously said, being cute gives us an incentive to want to talk to you. The really beautiful girls aren't always what we're looking for. Some of us would prefer that you're cute rather than gorgeous. You don't need to keep trying to look extra beautiful; we like you the way you are.
Virtuous guys are allowed to choose the really beautiful and innocent girls over the cute and innocent girls if they like. Some of us, however, would pick the cute ones over the really beautiful ones, and be just as happy.
There you have it; more insight into virtuous men, with more to come.
Everyone's at camp. You're a cute girl and a Mr. Virtuous has never met you before. He might say hi to you, or join a group that you're in and meet you that way. Maybe his friends will introduce you to each other. Most likely, the guy will try to meet you without the help of others. You're cute, why wouldn't he want to say hi?
He'll get to know what kind of person you are. He'll pay attention to the people you hang out with, the reputation you have, the clothes you wear (certain types of girls usually wear certain types of clothes). He'll pay attention to the things you say and what you talk about. There are other things he'll pay attention to, these are just some of them. He wants to know that you are a good girl. What do virtuous guys like? Innocence. Innocence is really attractive. A sweet, cute, innocent girl is a slice of heaven. A guy can generally determine your innocence based on the things I listed in this paragraph, and other things of course. What sort of clothes do innocent girls wear? What sort of things do they talk about? What sort of people do they hang out with?
On April 9, 2006, Josh Kerr wrote an excellent blog about women. He talked about how the way you look can be more attractive than a beautiful woman walking down the street. She's temporary, fake, untrue, and not innocent. You however, should be true and innocent. It is that truth and innocence that gets us. Those are the sort of things that wow us over. We might not always remember to list it as a quality we like in a woman, but it's powerful and beautiful.
Being cute might get things started, but being a good innocent girl can really get things rolling. The innocent girl will beat an attractive every time. If you're cute and I get to know you, and find out that you really aren't that innocent, that you aren't pure, that you aren't a good person, then you are just a waste of good looks to us. It won't matter how attractive you are. Good looks are an incentive for us to meet you sometimes, but they will not buy you friendship with us.
You may have noticed that I keep using the word "cute". What about the really beautiful girls, or the normal looking ones? We still talk to the normal looking girls, sometimes we see the way they act at camp, or see the kind of things they talked about on the youth forum. We want to meet you. Sometimes we think you're more attractive than everyone else does, but like I previously said, being cute gives us an incentive to want to talk to you. The really beautiful girls aren't always what we're looking for. Some of us would prefer that you're cute rather than gorgeous. You don't need to keep trying to look extra beautiful; we like you the way you are.
Virtuous guys are allowed to choose the really beautiful and innocent girls over the cute and innocent girls if they like. Some of us, however, would pick the cute ones over the really beautiful ones, and be just as happy.
There you have it; more insight into virtuous men, with more to come.
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